Afghan cam sex - Slow dating too fast

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Send a “I miss you” text too soon, ask him to go away for the weekend within only the first couple months, plan a second date within the same week as the first and your friends raise an eyebrow. Stories like those of our grandparents, meeting, falling in love and marrying within a year just don’t exist anymore.And while, I personally don’t advocate rushing marriage, is it really so bad to rush other things?

You idealize your new date and believe this one’s going to be different from all the rest.

When you idealize someone, you see them as all-good or all-perfect.

When you first meet someone, it’s actually pretty easy to paint that person with one large brushstroke because you really don’t know that much about him.

In other words, because you don’t have much information, you decide to fill in the blanks by using your own imagination.

You tell yourself that he is the funniest or sweetest or sexiest guy you’ve ever dated; that he totally understands you; and that you get along with him more easily than with anyone else in the past.

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